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Red flag or not?

20 real situations from dating and relationships. Swipe left for a red flag, right if it's fine, up if you'd ask first. Ivy explains every card.

20 situations 3 minutes Free

A game about patterns, not a verdict on anyone. If you feel afraid or unsafe with someone, that isn't a game question: here is where to get help.

How to play

Red flagSwipe left or press ←
Ask firstSwipe up or press ↑
It's fineSwipe right or press →

10 red flags, 5 healthy moments and 5 situations where the honest answer is «it depends». The order changes every game.

The Red Flag Library guide by Emotional Truth Diaries
The Red Flag Library · PDF guide · EN & RU

All 42 patterns in one guide

The game shows 20. The guide explains 42 patterns that feel like love until they don't: how they start, what they sound like, and questions to see them earlier.

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