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100 questions to really know each other

Ten chapters, from childhood to the future. For a couple, close friends or anyone you want to understand better. Not in one evening: come back to it.

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100 Questions to Really Know Each Other

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  • Pick a chapter or go in order: ten questions make a good evening.
  • Tick the ones you've talked about: the site remembers where you stopped.
  • Ask a follow-up question. The best answers come the second time.
  • Skip anything that feels too early.

Chapter 1 · Childhood

Where it all started.

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Chapter 2 · Dreams

What you want, big and small.

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Chapter 3 · Love

How you love and how you want to be loved.

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Chapter 4 · Money and work

The topics couples avoid most.

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Chapter 5 · Everyday life

Where real life actually happens.

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Chapter 6 · Friends and family

The people who made you.

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Chapter 7 · Fears and soft spots

Only if you both feel ready.

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Chapter 8 · Little pleasures

A breather, and the details that matter.

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Chapter 9 · Values

What you won't trade.

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Chapter 10 · Us and the future

For the two of you.

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A hundred answers later you know a lot. Not everything: people keep changing, and that's why it's worth asking again.

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