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Ivy & Chris · Part One

The Red Flag Library

Volume I

Tools to help you see the pattern before you call it love.

Instant PDF download · 42 patterns · 74 pages
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What's inside
  • ♥ 42 red flag patterns with clear explanations
  • ♥ Why each pattern feels attractive — and what it costs
  • ♥ Reflection prompts & recognition checklist
  • ♥ Clarity pages & printable pattern cards
  • ♥ Notes pages for personal breakthroughs
What's Inside — The Red Flag Library
This Is For You If...
Is This For You?

This is for you if…

  • ♥ Hot-and-cold behaviour feels like chemistry
  • ♥ Apologies keep buying more time
  • ♥ You want clarity, not more chaos
  • ♥ You are ready to stop romanticising confusion
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Why people save it
01

It names the pattern without naming the person. You can read it without deciding anything. That matters.

02

Each pattern shows why it feels attractive — not just why it's wrong. That's the part that makes sense of the confusion.

03

The reflection prompts work because they ask what you felt — not what you should have felt. There's no right answer.

04

It's 74 pages. Not a course, not a programme. Something you finish, keep, and return to when something feels off again.

"Not therapy. Not a diagnosis. A tool for noticing."
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